Tuesday, May 14, 2013

The difference between fear and respect

In this post I would like to take a closer look at the element of fear as a component of faith. I know that many have done so already, but I think that it's high time that I throw in my little spin on this charade that many wish to call God's commandment out of love for mankind.

I've had this argument with theists for years about what the bible means when it says that we should fear the Lord. They claim that it does not mean fear as in coerce through terror, but rather fear as in respect. I am here to state emphatically that this latter idea is false and incorrect. First of all respect and fear are two very different words with opposite meanings.

  1. esteem: a feeling or attitude of admiration and deference toward somebody or something
  2. state of being admired: the state of being admired deferentially
  3. thoughtfulness: consideration or thoughtfulness
  1. feeling of anxiety: an unpleasant feeling of anxiety or apprehension caused by the presence or anticipation of danger
  2. frightening thought: an idea, thought, or other entity that causes feelings of fear
  3. reverence: respect or awe for somebody or something
As you can see in the first definition respect is mostly a positive emotion. We often say that respect is not simply given it has to be earned. Respect for a persons achievements in a company for instance can inspire his co-workers to want to achieve greater success within the company. He is admired because he has worked hard to get to where he is. On the other hand, if you are a mob boss in the mafia chances are that what you receive from your subordinates is not respect but fear. They respect you because they fear you and what you can do to them. This is not true respect this is fear plain and simple.

 In Proverbs 9:10 and many other places in the scriptures it is emphasized that fear of the Lord is the most important thing a servant of God must possess. "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding." The biblical deity does not simply ask for respect he demands it! Yet in my view his acts and numerous crimes against humanity as narrated in the Old Testament are only deserving of my disgust and disdain for such a deity. I've often stated that if a man were to do half of what God had done to mankind he would be considered a monster devoid of morality. Hitler, Mao, Pol Pot, and others have proven my point quite nicely.

 Human monsters

At the end of the ten commandments in Exodus 20:18,20 Moses informs the Israelites about the reasons why they should fear the Lord after the people were terrified out of their minds from hearing God's voice from the mountain and seeing lightning above them. 18"When the people saw the thunder and lightning and heard the trumpet and saw the mountain in smoke, they trembled with fear. They stayed at a distance 20Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning.”

As you can see this so called fear of the Lord is best described by the first definition given above. According to the scriptures the sign that you love God is that you obey his commandments. But in reality you don't obey them because they are right and true. You obey them because you fear what in the case of Christians might befall you after death if you die outside of God's graces. The entire religious enterprise is built upon the principles of fear. The Old Testament has God interacting with his people in miraculous and often scary ways, while the New Testament has the looming threat of an eternal hell fire hanging over the heads of believers. 

In reality, which happens to be the world we currently live in you have to give respect to get it. If you treat people as if they are inferior, useless, or discriminate against them for a number of illogical reasons then they wont respect you. If you force them to respect you through intimidation and fear then what you have is fear and not respect. As I stated earlier respect has to be earned; it is not something you just randomly give away. Based on the bible stories about Yahweh, Elohim, or whatever you want to call him the biblical deity doesn't even qualify in my book for my respect and admiration. I see reflections of the biblical God in Hitler, Stalin, Mao, John Wayne Gacy, Vlad the impaler, and a few other human devils that have walked this earth.

Finally, before I end this post I would like to point out that I do not agree with the third definition of fear above. "reverence: respect or awe for somebody or something" this is not fear this is respect and admiration. I am just saying this since I do have some theists come through that love to nitpick my posts and misconstrue everything I say in them.

Note: All word definitions are from Bing Dictionary online and all biblical citations are from the New International Version.  


  1. You let the enemy still your identity brother. I am an evangelist for the kingdom of God. I know this calling on my life is a slap in the face to the dark kingdom. We are the ones who help bring souls out of darkness. But now darkness got you. You were once running strong for God. What hindered your walk? What was it bro? You know that God is real. You know this. I pray that you are set free. I pray that the strong hold the enemy has over your mind is broken. I love you brother and it's time to be redeemed. God loves you and this is your opportunity to be set free. Choose life brother. I break the power of the enemy right now! Choose Jesus my friend. It's time. In Jesus name, Amen.

    1. Thanks for your comment and your prayers. But I feel that in all truth I have not been decieved but rather have been freed from the shackles of religion and ancient superstitious beliefs. As a Christian you must prove that your particular god exists, that he revealed himself to certain men, that they in turn inspired by said revelations put it all down in writing. It is my belief that none of these assertions can be proven either objectively nor empirically thus my conclusion is that Christianity as all other beliefs systems are irrational and not worthy of serious consideration.

  2. This is a subject I've been meaning to write about as well. I, too have a blog at firinggod.blogspot.com and a post entitled the Hate we Hide which deals with what you're talking about here. I use an example of a documentary I saw about Saddam Hussein where men began to worship him out of fear for their lives. Worship and praise were the fruits of fear and terror. Thanks for writing.

  3. why take your anger against the christian faith, was because the christian girl you liked didn't like you? or your just a faggot, that couldn't take a dick in the ass because the bible doesn't allow. you have some issues and hop its not your lust for men. sorry mate, if u left Christianity than dont even talk about it, its not your fucking problem.

    1. Wow! I hope you are not a representative of a modern day Christian! Haven't you read your bible hypocrite? Obviously not.

      "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37

      Now on to your preconceived ideas about me. As far as getting the girl from church: I got her. In fact, I ended up marrying her. So...I am not nor ever have been gay. Although I personally do not see anything wrong with that for those who choose that lifestyle. Finally, because I left Christianity does not mean that I cannot talk about it. I can talk about whatever the hell I want and if you don't like it just don't read my blog. Grow up!

  4. Wow, who was that asshat? And almost 3 years after the OP.